This relationship therapist argues that she has the perfect method on how to stop any argument you may have with your partner. Next time you and your partner are in a disagreement just remember to ask this simple question.
A Simple Rule for Harmony
Relationship expert Lauren Consul shares the key to finding peace in your relationship.
In a viral TikTok video, therapist Lauren Consul reveals a simple yet profound question to bring harmony to your partnership.
This method goes straight to the heart of the matter.
Some Sound Advice
Lauren advises couples to try this powerful question the next time they find themselves in the midst of an argument.
“When your partner gets defensive I want you to ask this,” Lauren says as she bui;ds the suspense.
When tensions rise, instead of escalating the conflict, pause and ask your partner, “I want to understand what happened there – what did you hear me say?’”
The Benefits to the Relationship
Lauren emphasises that this question serves a dual purpose, bringing tremendous benefits to the relationship.
By asking this question, couples can communicate better and eliminate misunderstandings.
By clarifying what you really meant with your partner it stops the argument from, “Spiralling into defensiveness,” Lauren argues.
Reader Responses
Commenters could relate to the advice, with one admitting, “Why when I tell my wife something she repeats a whole different version of what I said? It’s a everyday thing.”
Lauren calmly replied saying, “2. Activating/triggering for her so you can address the deeer issue.”
Most users adored the advice, with one simply saying, “I love this.”
Users admit that they have used the technique and it always works, “Yes. Always, thanks,” one said.
Have you tried this exciting new method with your partner? We’d love to hear if it worked in the comments.
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